How do You Achieve Social Skills Mastery?
The way I define a "social natural" is an efficient social calibrator, in other words he has plenty of social experiences under his belt and with them, make him a social genius, almost like he has a sixth-sense for social dynamic interaction to pick up other people's emotions without them ever revealing it and be able to predict and have the right thing to say at the right time.
That is the path to "natural game".
Complete natural game is unconscious competence of what you are doing, but to get there you need to have some sorts of constructed blueprint to know how to get there and do...to be an unconscious natural.
For guys coming from an inexperienced place of not knowing what to do in social situation like approaching and interacting with girls, routines are guidelines to social calibration. They give you a structure of the frame to socialize with, without it, your interaction will just be messy (social miscalibration).
If you look top pickup artists who are natural now, started out with some kind of structures to help them finally get there in the first place (like Mystery, etc.)
You do not master social calibration overnight. It requires a lot of practice, even if you become good at a certain aspect of it, doesn't mean you will be good at another.
What I mean by this is you might start picking up women consistently at a bar but for a night club, you will have to fine-tune and adjust your social calibration a bit.
I know lots of guys who are really good with meeting women in a bar, but they wouldn't step foot into a night club when the whole game changes and the performance in that setting are not perfectly calibrated yet, even if the skill sets appear the same.
Think of it like putting a piece of puzzles together, regardless if the side-shapes are identical, the sizes and edge can't be bigger or smaller for them to fit perfectly.
Just the same as some people prefer the daytime location because they are better calibrated in their skill sets of meeting women during the day but avoid the night scene because their social calibration levels are completely way off.
Now take a guy, for example, who has been part of a large company like forever will have almost perfect social calibration skills and developed an akined sixth-sense because they know the culture, environment, atmosphere, people, etc; but take them out of their element to a night club, and then seehow they interact with people.
Mastering social calibration is like adapting.
Experiment with the world as your giant social laboratory.
About the Author
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.